Staying Focused On Your Path

It's time to do something about your life - you need to be more disciplined, you need to take care of your health, you want to adopt a more positive attitude, you need to save enough money for retirement, you want to be a better partner, a better son, a better mother. You've had enough of being directionless in life and are looking forward to achieving the goals you've set for yourself.

But wait, what's lurking on the sidelines that can derail you from your path? Those well-meaning friends and relatives who, with all good intention, pass along clutter from their house to yours? - "this would look great on you", or "I can't use this but maybe you can".

What about the people around you who seem to dwell on the negative or tell stories about how unfair life is?

What about relatives and friends who shy away from your newfound honesty and assertiveness?

They probably don't mean any harm but they may DO you harm if they steer you away from the goals you've set for yourself. So how do you put yourself first and get selfish, so to speak, when others are tempting you to stray?

First of all, be very clear yourself about the goals you're eyeing. If you're unsteady in your commitment, that will show, and make it all the easier for them to lead you astray.

Demonstrate your dedication by living by example. Don't preach. Just like you weren't ready to take on healthy goals at other times in your life, those you love or care about may not be ready now.

Also, plan ahead. Think of how you will say no, prepare alternatives or plan an "escape route". Do what you have to do to take care of yourself.

Be honest. Talk about your goals and what they mean to you. And choose who to spend time with. You may choose to spend less time with someone who has unhealthy habits. And more time with people who make you feel good about yourself, support your efforts, or are themselves models of positivity and self-care. As time goes by and your daily practices become more of a habit, you'll be able to focus on your path towards your goals without even thinking about it.

Life upside down...

Very disappointed and angry at myself for being so useless. Can't imagined that a person can have so much impact on hx. Don't want to think of the problem but it kept popping out. haiz... Anyone have meng bo soup???

WENXIANG!!! PLS FOCUS ON YOUR STUDIES!!! LAO MU AH!!! HX DON'T WANT TO FAIL!!!

JIA YOU!!! JIA YOU!!! JIA YOU!!!

Starting Life Anew!

Why do people start to cherish people or things only when they had lost them? The answer is not important now. Right now, Hx had to learn to start cherish everything that hx had, so not to have regret later...

Be humble, learn and ask questions, practice what hx learnt into daily life.

May LMCB, Do guide hx along the way.

與母同行

迎著陽光把陰影拋落後方 展翅飛翔
飛向海天一色的湛藍 風風雨雨不迷航
我知道老母永在我身旁

不茫然不用頹喪
老母慈悲賜給我永明的真太陽
我深深知道老中慈悲永在我身旁
老母慈悲永在我身旁

靜靜的來到這里

悲傷的時候我靜靜來到這里
燦耀的佛光撫平我的哀傷
歷經万重難難我靜靜來到這里
彌勒低眉微笑護我脆弱的心
在世蒼桑跌倒是你讓我得到依靠
宛如初生的嬰孩那樣完全的表白
奇妙的轉變在剎那間
讓我充滿宁靜希望
仿佛是最後的漂泊
靜靜的來到這里

天空的颜色

火车厢一列列经过了隧道
风轻吹有木棉的味道
探着头数一数旧时的街道
我们的故事有多少
疏离的城市 和轻狂的年少
苦的甜的只有自己知道
有一个声音不能忘掉
还记得外婆对我轻轻唱
孩子不要忘记了
人间的遭遇有它的规则
有一天当世界都变了
别忘记天空原来的颜色
水稻田阳光下追逐的嬉闹
小河边放只船水中漂
蒲公英吹散了像雪随风飘
那属于夏天的记号
长大了以后 你会不会忘掉
我们要勾勾手约定才好
未来的变化谁会知道
记得有首歌是这样唱的

You Raise Me Up

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up: To more than I can be.

There is no life - no life without its hunger;
Each restless heart beats so imperfectly;
But when you come and I am filled with wonder,
Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity.